The Difference Between Men and Women

I think we can all agree girls, we all tend to read into situations a lot more than guys do. Why?….I guess there’s no real answer to that. I guess we are a lot more observant or worry a lot more. Guys are so laid back and relaxed they like to take things as they come to them. Which isn’t always the case either, some guys are very up tight and want to know where you are, what your doing and who your with. We don’t like those kind of guys at all.

I think us girls need to take a bit of a back seat and start to be less observant and let the men do the worrying for a while. Girls, you should all go out, girly night out or something and give time to yourselves. The reason we all get worked up is because we aren’t relaxed enough. We can get worked up with anything.

Some girls get annoyed as well with guys who are too laid back. They say that they don’t seem to want to do anything or care about anything their other half does. Yes they do say a leopard never changes its spots but everyone can give a little somewhere. So if a guy refuses to improve his efforts their is no harm in rocking them a bit. If that doesn’t work well then you may have to consider your options. 1. is this trait of his harming your relationship or is something you can look past and focus on his good points 2. does he show any concern for the relationship or is he in it for the wrong reasons and 3. could you find someone better and who is more understanding and cheery and who wants to make an effort with the relationship. But I can’t say its the end of every relationship when this happens. Every relationship will have its hiccups the test is can each person get over these hiccups. Let us know have you come across a situation like this and I will help you with your situation.

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If you Date a Loser: You are a Loser

If you Date a Loser: You are a Loser.

It isn’t an uncommon thing to go through many phase in regards to our relationships, not everyone does, but those that do, don’t worry it’s quite natural. I like to think of it like your window shopping for Mr Right. Some of you I’d say are quite lucky and may have found him, but some are still in such and along the way have come across some amount of pricks. But as I say ‘If you Date a Loser, You are a Loser’. You really can’t say that’s not true or even unfair because my interpretation of a loser could be a lot different than yours. I’m not talking about maths geeks or shy people for example, I’m talking about the people that don’t treat us right. Those people are the real losers in our lives. So if your dating a guy that would rather be with his mates than you, or a guy that isn’t bothered with making an effort in the relationship or one that cheats or abuses….then I’m afraid to say your the loser in this case. The reason being is because you ‘losing’ out. Your losing out on a great guy out there that would be willing to do just about anything with you and would treat you like a princess. As there point in saying I can’t find that guy or I can’t find anyone better, then that’s like your giving up on your own life. You deserve to be really happy no matter who your with and your most of all deserve to be treated with respect.  If you have a situation like this feel free to write to me and I will be happy to help you as best I can!

Here is also a very interesting pages about 10 reasons why women get hurt in relationships


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