I think we can all agree girls, we all tend to read into situations a lot more than guys do. Why?….I guess there’s no real answer to that. I guess we are a lot more observant or worry a lot more. Guys are so laid back and relaxed they like to take things as they come to them. Which isn’t always the case either, some guys are very up tight and want to know where you are, what your doing and who your with. We don’t like those kind of guys at all.
I think us girls need to take a bit of a back seat and start to be less observant and let the men do the worrying for a while. Girls, you should all go out, girly night out or something and give time to yourselves. The reason we all get worked up is because we aren’t relaxed enough. We can get worked up with anything.
Some girls get annoyed as well with guys who are too laid back. They say that they don’t seem to want to do anything or care about anything their other half does. Yes they do say a leopard never changes its spots but everyone can give a little somewhere. So if a guy refuses to improve his efforts their is no harm in rocking them a bit. If that doesn’t work well then you may have to consider your options. 1. is this trait of his harming your relationship or is something you can look past and focus on his good points 2. does he show any concern for the relationship or is he in it for the wrong reasons and 3. could you find someone better and who is more understanding and cheery and who wants to make an effort with the relationship. But I can’t say its the end of every relationship when this happens. Every relationship will have its hiccups the test is can each person get over these hiccups. Let us know have you come across a situation like this and I will help you with your situation.